Young, Stormy Lust

We feel like we’re an intimate part of the NYTimes and the WaPo news these days. Whether the news is about Grace Young, or Stormy Daniels, or Erika Lust, we’re – at the very most – one handshake or Facetime away from them – and fame!

If you’ve read our blog for long, you know that both Andy and I are intrigued by the “one handshake away” rule. We’re one handshake away from Jennifer Lopez, Bob Dylan and Winston Churchill. How utterly cool can we be? Andy, however, is not always cool. See today’s Andy’s Corner.

But this “one handshake” doesn’t take into account the new world of Facetime and Zoom. Can we count them? For example, if our daughter, Sara, is on a one-to-one Facetime with Erika Lust, are we the equivalent of one handshake away from Ms Lust? Did I hear you say you haven’t heard of her – and what’s the big deal? Well, as linked above, there’s this from the NYTimes, an article about Lust’s “Alternative Porn Vision.”

Before you go crazy wondering why Sara was Facetiming with Erika, rest assured there is a simple and nonsexual answer: Sara interviewed her for a new magazine, Mother Tongue, which Sara’s LA friends have launched. The article is about how to teach your children about porn – since they are bound to stumble upon it during their hours – and hours – of screen time. Ms Lust even has a website, The Porn Conversation, devoted to her approach to this disconcerting issue. I’m SO glad I raised my kids before the internet took hold!

Erika Lust

Now I probably never really shook hands with her, but surely I can count Stormy Daniels as even LESS than one handshake away. After all, she was a student (and known then as Stephanie Clifford) in my Scotlandville Magnet H.S Civics class in Baton Rouge – and I take credit for any kudos she got from the press on her ability to hold up to Michael Avenatti’s cross-examination. Avenatti, of course, then got convicted for swindling poor Stormy out of the proceeds from her book about her tryst (or possible tryst) with Donald Trump. 🙂

Stormy Daniels as photographed by Annie Leibovitz for Vogue, October 2018

After the “Stormy Lust” connections, Grace Young is a breath of fresh and wholesome air! Sara first met Grace years ago, not by Facetiming or Zooming – but the old-fashioned (dare I say “better”?) way – a one-on-one interview for a magazine article Sara was writing about Grace and her cookbooks. And then we were fortunate enough to get to have dinner with Grace and Sara in NYC.

If you ever need help with stir-frying or using a wok, Grace is your go-to. Grace’s first cookbook, The Wisdom of the Chinese Kitchen, was published in 1999, but her most acclaimed cookbooks are probably The Breath of a Wok, published in 2004, followed by 2010’s Stir-frying to the Sky’s Edge. I recommend you visit Grace’s website. I know you’ll be as impressed as I am with all she’s accomplished in the world of cooking.

But that’s the old (or young?) Grace Young. The Grace Young who is all over the news today is all about saving the Chinatowns – and Japantowns and Koreatowns and LittleSaigons. As the Coronavirus shut down restaurants all over the country, the restaurants of Manhattan’s Chinatown were possibly even harder hit. The anti-Asian sentiment – sadly – also impacted the situation. In an effort to boost public awareness of their dire straits, Grace recorded a series of interviews with NYC Chinatown’s restaurant folks, entitled Coronavirus: Chinatown Stories. The press coverage of this has been fabulous, including this article in the Smithsonian Mag. And Grace is fabulous. I’m in “Young Love!” (If you don’t get our “friends and family” email that precedes our blog, you won’t appreciate this :). If you’d like to be put on that email list, let us know, by clicking Contact in the upper right and filling it out. We promise not to share your email with anyone because we don’t know how to!)

Grace Young

We’re sharing two of Grace’s stir-fry recipes, one easily-made vegetarian and one with beef. They’re both to “lust” after!

Oh Wynn!

Only What You Need

Clearly it was the name that first caught my attention. The name? “OWYN.” Remember our new little Cardigan Welsh Corgi is named Wynn. And we say, “Oh, Wynn!” a lot around here. Now maybe we’ll shorten it to OWyn. But is she – or this drink – “Only What You Need?” I doubt it.

Whether we need a Welsh Corgi is beside the point. We have her and we adore her.

Wynn – at 7 months – and Oakley – at 11 years

Whether we need to be drinking OWYN is another question.

I was curious what this OWYN drink was and why 5,827 Amazon members had given it an almost perfect 5 star rating. Here’s the company’s ad:

I won’t argue that this list of benefits and nutrition makes OWYN sound great; but I would argue that a fortified drink isn’t “Only What You Need.” I like to think we get our nutrition – our EAAs (essential amino acids) and protein and superfoods and Omega 3’s – from food that does more than just help us survive another day. I’d like to think that both preparing and consuming food can and should be a pleasurable experience.

Instead of mindlessly inhaling that supermarket/Amazon drink, how about making a quick and easy pasta dish – with sustainable tuna, organic spinach, and walnuts – and even anchovies, if you’d like. A few of you may say “YUCK” to the anchovies. You’ll want to check out more about “YUCK” in today’s Andy’s Corner.

As shown in the chart below, tuna, anchovies, spinach, and walnuts are great sources for Omega-3 Fatty Acids. And note: Omega-3’s have been shown to fight anxiety and depression. Sounds perfect for this Covid era!

If we weren’t such fans of cooking, we’d probably just squirt some of Wynn & Oakley’s fish oil supplement onto a store-bought salad to quickly and easily get our Omega-3’s (just kiddin’!).

As for picking a good sustainable tuna brand, here are two that are recommended by Greenpeace and the Sierra Club.

For today’s healthy, yummy WYNN-R (What You Need Now – Really) winner recipe, we’re pleased that its source is San Francisco’s legendary Judy Rodgers and her The Zuni Cafe Cookbook.

Keep Moving

A Christmas gift from our grandson at Cal

Let’s begin today’s BigLittleMeals with a quiz:

Give me the name of the author who…

  1. Was born in Sacramento, California
  2. Descended from members of the original Donner Party
  3. Used a line from a Yeats’ poem as the title for one of her books
  4. Received her degree in English from Cal (otherwise known as Berkeley for those of us who didn’t grow up in Northern California)
  5. Was a Barry Goldwater supporter
  6. With her husband, wrote the screenplay for 1976’s A Star is Born, starring Barbra Streisand and Kris Kristofferson (I LOVE Kris Kristofferson!)
  7. Wrote “You were meant, if you were a Californian, to know how to lash together a corral with bark, you were meant to show spirit, kill the rattlesnake, keep moving.”
  8. Confessed to having a coke every morning before she started writing

Did you get it? If not, keep reading and I’ll divulge the name at the end of this blog :). If you didn’t get it, you’ve missed out on knowing about and enjoying the works of a really fascinating and complex writer.

Yeats’ poem is also worth highlighting, especially given the fact that he wrote it in 1919 – in the midst of the Spanish flu pandemic. Probably the most disturbing lines for us living through the last few years are these:

Yeats and Falcon

Turning and turning in the widening gyre   
The falcon cannot hear the falconer;
Things fall apart; the centre cannot hold

My mystery author refers to this Yeats poem as she begins her famous essay:

The center was not holding. It was a country of bankruptcy notices and public-auction announcements and commonplace reports of casual killings and misplaced children and abandoned homes and vandals who misspelled even the four-letter words they scrawled.

It was not a country in open revolution. It was not a country under enemy siege. It was the United States of America in the year 1967, and the market was steady and the GNP high, and a great many articulate people seemed to have a sense of high social purpose, and it might have been a year of brave hopes and national promise, but it was not, and more and more people had the uneasy apprehension that it was not. All that seemed clear was that at some point we had aborted ourselves and butchered the job, and because nothing else seemed so relevant I decided to go to San Francisco. 

Upon re-reading those lines, I actually found them to be comforting. It’s easy to forget that we’ve had really hard times in the world before this Covid pandemic laid siege. And it’s an eye-opener that the author is describing the year Andy and I married – 1967 (not incidentally, that’s also the year Andy got drafted, as the Vietnam War got going). And just so you know – in today’s Andy’s Corner, we learn of Andy’s “connections” to the two main characters in one of this author’s most famous essays.

San Francisco – 1967

But on to less disturbing thoughts and more about California and rattlesnakes. We hadn’t lived in Glen Ellen, California very long before one of my new clients from my days as a gardener (remember MiniBlooms?) told me how years ago she had shot and killed a rattlesnake that had bitten her young son. I guess we native-born Coloradans aren’t nearly as tough as the best of these Californianos. The first and only time I confronted a rattlesnake, I screamed for Andy to come do something (Andy, of course, is a native-born Californian, so that explains his killer instincts when confronted with a snake).

And leaving rattlesnakes behind (thankfully), we can next consider the author’s suggestion that real Californians know they must keep moving. Hopefully, that won’t entail moving out of California (which is a headline practically every other day), but will entail moving forward, not stagnating, not letting pandemic morose overwhelm us.

My soon-to-be-named author used Coca Cola to get moving in the morning, so we’ve got a Coke recipe for you to try. Andy and I gave up drinking Coke years ago – and only buy it now when a certain family member arrives for a visit and requests it – though we adamantly and self-righteously refuse to buy Diet Coke or cans of Coke – and will only consider a bottle of Mexican Coke. But that doesn’t keep us from LOVING this cake. Crazy what a little Coke can do! (note: I said A LITTLE. I just read that Rep. Debbie Dingell (D-Mich.) routinely drinks 10-12 bottles of Diet Coke…a day – and she’s in the news not only for her junk food addiction and her overuse of Ibuprofen but because she just had emergency surgery for ulcers).

So here’s a final hint for my mystery author quiz: she made a big deal about NOT drinking Diet Coke – yet she was incredibly – almost abnormally – thin.

And (I’m sure y’all already know) – The quote is from the essay “Slouching Towards Bethlehem,” and my mystery author is Joan Didion. RIP

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